I looked up the official court records for my parents, Randall Gross & Linda Gross. What I found was a dry look at 12 years of a painful ongoing battle…. divorce, remarriage, divorce again (and that leaves out 4 unofficial breakups!), 2 restraining orders, domestic abuse conviction (not shown), continuous child custody battles, and official declarations from most family members, friends, neighbors, church members, church pastors.
The most horrifying thing is that this is just the tip of the iceberg… 95% of the war occurred outside of official oversight: Drug abuse, backstabbing, child abuse, beatings, alcoholism, alienation of all family & friends, rape, and unlimited hatred.
Results:
- 1 old man filled with hate, bitterness and despair
- 1 crazy, damaged old woman without much understanding of reality anymore and a meth-scarred brain
- 4 boys who haven’t spoken to their father in years and have no intentions of doing so again
- Dying parents of the old man whom he has discarded
- Aging parents of old woman raising her youngest son
| Filing Date | Filing | Access | Pages |
| 5/28/98 | FILING FEE RECEIVED | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | SUMMONS & PET FOR DISSOLUTION | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | ORDER SETTING CASE SCHEDULE | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | REQUEST FOR ASSIGN TO CIVIL TRACK | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | FINANCIAL DECLARATION | Public | |
| 5/28/98 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 6/5/98 | CONFIRMATION OF SERVICE | Public | |
| 6/5/98 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE | Public | |
| 6/11/98 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | |
| 6/11/98 | CHILD SUPPORT WORKSHEET | Public | |
| 6/11/98 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL G GROSS | Public | |
| 6/11/98 | FINANCIAL DECLARATION | Public | |
| 6/11/98 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 6/11/98 | DECLARATION OF PETITIONER RESP | Public | |
| 7/6/98 | MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION | Public | |
| 7/6/98 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 7/6/98 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 7/8/98 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 7/17/98 | DECLARATION IN SUPPORT | Public | |
| 7/17/98 | DECLARATION BY REPONDENT | Public | |
| 7/21/98 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS | Public | |
| 7/23/98 | NOTICE OF WITHDRAWAL OF ATTORNEY | Public | |
| 9/2/98 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 9/11/98 | ORDER FOR WARRANT W/WORKSHEETS | Public | |
| 9/11/98 | FINDINGS OF FACT&CONCLUSIONS OF LAW | Public | |
| 9/11/98 | DECREE OF DISSOLUTION 6 PGS | Public | |
| 9/11/98 | PARENTING PLAN (FINAL ORDER) | Public | |
| 9/11/98 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | |
| 8/10/99 | PET ORD FOR PROTECTION | Public | |
| 8/10/99 | TEMP ORD FOR PROTECTION | Public | |
| 8/10/99 | PET ORD FOR PROTECTION | Public | |
| 8/10/99 | TEMP ORD FOR PROTECTION | Public | |
| 8/12/99 | RETURN OF SERVICE SERVED | Public | |
| 8/12/99 | RETURN OF SERVICE SERVED | Public | |
| 8/24/99 | ORD FOR PROTECTION CONTESTED PERM | Public | |
| 8/24/99 | MOTION HEARING | Public | |
| 8/24/99 | ORD FOR PROTECTION CONTESTED PERM | Public | |
| 8/24/99 | MOTION HEARING | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | FILING FEE RECEIVED | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | SUMMONS & PET FOR DISSOLUTION | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | ORDER SETTING CASE SCHEDULE | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | MOTION FOR ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | TEMP REST ORD & ORD TO SHO CAUS | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | REQUEST FOR ASSIGN TO CIVIL TRACK | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | DECLARATION OF CINDY WILLETT | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | DECLARATION OF ANGELINA MONNOHAN | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | DECLARATION OF MARSHA MANGAN | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS | Public | |
| 9/10/99 | DECLARATION OF DENISE GREESEY | Public | |
| 9/14/99 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE | Public | |
| 9/22/99 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | |
| 9/27/99 | TEMP REST ORD & ORD TO SHO CAUS | Public | |
| 9/27/99 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 9/27/99 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | RESPONSE | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | CHILD SUPPORT WORKSHEET | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | DECLARATION OF FOREST NEWSOM | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | FINANCIAL DECLARATION | Public | |
| 10/7/99 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 10/8/99 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS – SUPP | Public | |
| 10/8/99 | DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN | Public | |
| 10/8/99 | DECLARATION OF CINDY WILLETT | Public | |
| 10/8/99 | DECLARATION OF MARSHA MANGAN | Public | |
| 10/11/99 | NOTICE OF POTENTIAL GAL | Public | |
| 10/11/99 | PARENTING PLAN – TEMPORARY | Public | |
| 10/11/99 | ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WRKSHT – TEMP | Public | |
| 10/11/99 | TEMPORARY ORDER | Public | |
| 10/11/99 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | |
| 10/11/99 | FINANCIAL DECLARATION | Public | |
| 10/12/99 | DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY | Public | |
| 11/3/99 | ORDER APPOINTING GUARDIAN AD LITEM | Public | |
| 11/4/99 | DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN | Public | |
| 12/1/99 | ORD APPOINTING GAL *AMENDED* | Public | |
| 1/6/00 | NOTICE OF INTENT TO WITHDRAW | Public | |
| 1/13/00 | ORDER AUTHOR REMOVAL OF COURT FILE | Public | |
| 2/7/00 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | |
| 2/7/00 | NOTICE OF ABSENCE/UNAVAILABILITY | Public | |
| 2/9/00 | NOTICE OF ISSUE | Public | |
| 2/9/00 | MOTION TO CONTINUE | Public | |
| 2/16/00 | ORDER AMENDING CASE SCHEDULE | Public | |
| 2/29/00 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 2/29/00 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS | Public | |
| 2/29/00 | MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION | Public | |
| 2/29/00 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 2/29/00 | FINANCIAL DECLARATION | Public | |
| 3/17/00 | DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN | Public | |
| 3/17/00 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | AFFIDAVIT OF ATTY RE FEES | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WRKSHT | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | TEMPORARY ORDER | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | NOTICE OF WITHDRAWAL OF ATTORNEY | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | |
| 3/23/00 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS | Public | |
| 3/24/00 | DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY | Public | |
| 4/24/00 | NOTICE OF ATTORNEY S CLAIM OF LIEN | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | NOTE FOR CALENDAR | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | DECLARATION OF JUSTIN GROSS | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | COPY OF LETTER FROM DOCTOR | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | MOTION FOR ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | TEMP REST ORD & ORD TO SHO CAUS | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 6/9/00 | DECLARATION IN SUPPORT | Public | |
| 6/16/00 | DECLARATION OF ANGELA OLSEN | Public | |
| 6/16/00 | PETITION FOR WRIT OF HABEAS CORPUS | Public | |
| 6/16/00 | ORDER DIRECTING ISSUANCE OF WRIT | Public | |
| 6/16/00 | WRIT OF HABEAS CORPUS | Public | |
| 6/16/00 | BENCH WARRANT 2 | Public | 3 |
| 6/23/00 | LETTER | Public | 1 |
| 6/23/00 | ******* VOLUME 2 ******* MICK | Public | 11 |
| 6/27/00 | SHERIFF S RETURN OF SERVICE | Public | 6 |
| 6/28/00 | DECLARATION OF EMELY SHOLSETH | Public | 7 |
| 6/28/00 | RESPONSE & CROSS MOTION | Public | 2 |
| 9/27/00 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | 3 |
| 10/9/00 | REPORT OF GUARDIAN AD LITEM | Public | 1 |
| 10/11/00 | ASSIGNED TO DEPT 6 BUCKNER | Public | 1 |
| 10/11/00 | AFFIDAVIT OF PREJUDICE | Public | 2 |
| 10/11/00 | INFORMATION PRETRIAL | Public | 3 |
| 10/11/00 | ASSIGNED TO DEPT 17 | Public | 16 |
| 10/11/00 | WITNESS RECORD | Public | 1 |
| 10/11/00 | NON-JURY TRIAL | Public | 13 |
| 10/20/00 | NOTICE OF ISSUE | Public | 4 |
| 10/23/00 | ORDER AUTHOR REMOVAL OF COURT FILE | Public | 4 |
| 10/23/00 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | 11 |
| 10/31/00 | VERBATIM RPT TRANSMITTED IN CT FILE | Public | 1 |
| 11/9/00 | ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WORKSHEETS | Public | 4 |
| 11/9/00 | FINDINGS OF FACT&CONCLUSIONS OF LAW | Public | 3 |
| 11/9/00 | DECREE OF DISSOLUTION 4 | Public | 6 |
| 11/9/00 | PARENTING PLAN (FINAL ORDER) | Public | 4 |
| 11/9/00 | MOTION HEARING | Public | 4 |
| 11/9/00 | JUDGMENT BACK CHILD SUPPORT 11/99-11/00 | Public | 2 |
| 11/13/00 | DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY | Public | |
| 11/20/00 | NOTICE OF ISSUE | Public | 5 |
| 11/20/00 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS W/ATCHMT | Public | 4 |
| 11/20/00 | MOTION FOR RECONSIDERATION | Public | 2 |
| 11/29/00 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS 2 | Public | 7 |
| 11/30/00 | DECLARATION OF LINDA GROSS | Public | 1 |
| 12/1/00 | MOTION HEARING | Public | 2 |
| 12/13/00 | ORDER FOR SUPPORT W/WORKSHEETS | Public | 2 |
| 12/13/00 | ORDER RE RECONSIDERATION | Public | 1 |
| 12/13/00 | EX-PARTE ACTION WITH ORDER | Public | 1 |
| 12/13/00 | EX-PARTE ACTION WITH ORDER | Public | 4 |
| 12/13/00 | JUDGMENT – BACK SUPPORT AT 12% | Public | 1 |
| 12/14/00 | DOCUMENTS FAXED TO STATE REGISTRY | Public | 3 |
| 1/24/01 | NOTICE OF INTENT TO WITHDRAW | Public | 2 |
| 12/21/01 | FILING FEE RECEIVED | Public | 1 |
| 12/21/01 | SUMMONS | Public | 1 |
| 12/21/01 | PETITION/MOTION TO MODIFY | Public | |
| 12/21/01 | DECLARATION OF LINDA OTYSON | Public | |
| 1/9/02 | AFFIDAVIT OF SERVICE | Public | |
| 1/11/02 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | |
| 2/7/02 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS | Public | |
| 2/7/02 | FINANCIAL DECLARATION | Public | |
| 2/7/02 | SEALED FINANCIAL SOURCE DOCUMENT | Sealed | |
| 2/11/02 | RESPONSE | Public | |
| 7/18/02 | DECLARATION OF CAROLYN MARTIN | Public | |
| 7/18/02 | NOTE OF ISSUE | Public | |
| 7/22/02 | NOTE OF ISSUE | Public | |
| 8/7/02 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF PETITIONER | Public | |
| 8/14/02 | DECLARATION OF RANDALL GROSS | Public | |
| 8/14/02 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF RESPONDENT | Public | |
| 8/16/02 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | |
| 8/16/02 | ORDER FOR SUPPORT WITH WORKSHEETS | Public | |
| 8/16/02 | FINDINGS, OF FACT AND CONCLUSIONS OF LAW | Public | |
| 8/16/02 | ORDER ON MODIFICATION | Public | |
| 6/25/04 | LETTER FROM LINDA OTYSON | Public | |
| 6/25/04 | LETTER FROM DEPARTMENT 6 | Public | |
| 6/25/04 | LETTER FROM LINDA OTYSON | Public | |
| 6/25/04 | LETTER FROM LINDA OTYSON | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | DECLARATION OF PETITIONER | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | MOTION AND AFFIDAVIT | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | TEMPORARY RESTRAINING ORDER AND ORDER TO SHOW CAUSE | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | SUMMONS | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | FILING FEE RECEIVED $30.00 | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | DECLARATION OF MICHAEL K STRUB | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | PETITION FOR MODIFICATION | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION FORM | Sealed | |
| 7/19/04 | PROPOSED PARENTING PLAN | Public | |
| 7/19/04 | NOTE FOR COMMISSIONERS CALENDAR | Public | 129 |
| 7/21/04 | NOTICE OF ABSENCE/UNAVAILABILITY | Public | |
| 7/29/04 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE | Public | |
| 8/6/04 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | 3 |
| 8/6/04 | NOTE FOR COMMISSIONERS CALENDAR | Public | 1 |
| 8/13/04 | TEMPORARY ORDER FOR PROTECTION | Public | 1 |
| 8/13/04 | PETITION FOR ORDER FOR PROTECTION | Public | 1 |
| 8/13/04 | LAW ENFORCEMENT INFORMATION SHEET | Restricted | 1 |
| 8/13/04 | CONFIDENTIAL INFORMATION FORM – CHILDREN | Sealed | 1 |
| 8/13/04 | CHILD CUSTODY INFORMATION SHEET | Public | 1 |
| 8/13/04 | PENDING RETURN OF SERVICE | Restricted | 1 |
| 8/18/04 | RETURN OF SERVICE | Public | 1 |
| 8/27/04 | TEMPORARY ORDER | Public | 1 |
| 8/27/04 | NOTICE OF APPEARANCE | Public | |
| 8/27/04 | CLERK’S MINUTE ENTRY | Public | 5 |
| 8/27/04 | ORDER DENYING MOTION | Public | |
| 9/17/04 | APPEARANCE PRO SE | Public | |
| 9/17/04 | LETTER FROM CLAUDE/LINDA O’TYSON | Public | |
| 10/18/04 | NOTICE OF INTENT TO WITHDRAW | Public | |
| 10/21/04 | NOTICE OF HEARING | Public | 7 |
| 10/21/04 | NOTICE OF HEARING | Public | 1 |
| 10/28/04 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE | Public | 4 |
| 10/28/04 | AFFIDAVIT/DECLARATION OF SERVICE | Public | 14 |
| 11/9/04 | AGREED ORDER TERMINATING PROTECTION ORDER | Public | 5 |
| 11/9/04 | AGREED ORDER TERMINATING PROTECTION ORDER | Public | |
| 12/22/04 | ARCHIVED RECORD | Public | |
| 12/22/04 | ARCHIVED RECORD | Public | |
| 7/21/09 | ARCHIVED RECORD | Public | |
| 10/23/09 | ORDER FOR HEARING RE: STATUS AND DISMISSAL | Public | 7 |
| 11/23/09 | ORDER DISMISSING MODIFICATION | Public | 1 |
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| 14 | |||
| 11/23/09 | FAMILY LAW COURT – ONE (Rm. 217A) | ||
| 8/27/04 | C2- UNCONTESTED DISSOLUTION (Rm. 105 ) | ||
| 8/31/04 | C – SHOW CAUSE-MASTER CAL | Cancelled/Stricken | |
| 8/16/02 | DEPT 06 – JUDGE BUCKNER | Ex-Parte w/ Order Held | |