I realize that my discussion of alcoholism, Alcoholics Anonymous groups and personal responsibility may offend some people. All I ask is that you read it with an open mind and consider the ideas presented and the science behind them. If you have a problem with alcoholism, you need to get treatment and take control of your life- just do it the right way.
Alcoholism is a confusing condition, even for those who are intimately familiar with it or perhaps even suffer from it. Organizations such as Alcoholics Anonymous claim that alcoholism is a disease and that humans are powerless to deal with it without the assistance of supernatural forces. The generally accepted definition for alcoholism is “people who continue to consume alcoholic beverages even when it negatively affects their health and the health of those around them.” My life has been affected by alcoholism; my mother was an alcoholic and drug addict, though she has been successfully clean and sober for several years. She has said that being free of drugs and alcohol is due to the supernatural assistance of God and God’s earthly messengers (Alcoholics Anonymous). I know many other people who consume alcohol with and without problems and I myself consume alcohol. Based on my observation, experiences and review of scientific studies, I have come to the conclusion that:
Alcoholism is almost NEVER a disease, but is caused by a lack of self control and will power. Alcoholics Anonymous success rate shows it is not as effective a form of treatment as others available.
I know that that is a big statement and a lot of readers probably are angry, but I simply ask you to listen to what I have to say to back up such a strong claim.
My first statement, that alcoholism is almost never a disease but demonstrates a lack of discipline is probably the most controversial idea. The founder of Alcoholics Anonymous, Bill Wilson, even stated that alcoholism is more comparable to a malady than a disease. Wilson and Alcoholics Anonymous used the idea that alcoholism is a disease to fight the commonly held belief that obsessive consumption of alcohol can be cessated by willpower alone. Success combating alcohol, according to Alcoholics Anonymous, can only be achieved through absolute abstinence from booze through the power of God. So what makes me say alcoholism is not a disease?
Alcoholism is not a disease. Cancer, HIV, herpes, smallpox and Alzeimers are diseases. Going to a bar and ordering a martini is not a disease. A person must make a conscious decision to go buy alcohol and then lift that glass or bottle of alcohol to their lips and drink. Nor does that fact that it can become habitual make it a disease. The fact that I make picking my nose a habit does not make nose picking a disease. Even the fact that alcohol is a drug and can be physically addicting does not make it a disease. Unless there is a universally recognized mental health condition causing the person to be unable to control their consumption of alcohol (mental retardation, obsessive compulsive disorder, etc.), that person can apply their willpower, discipline and self control to simply not drink to excess or not drink at all.
People that I have met who claim to “alcoholics” suffering from “alcoholism” all suffer from a distinct lack of will power in other areas of their lives. Usually alcoholism is not their root problem; their lack of self control is. Learning to discipline oneself is the hardest thing for any human to do, but it is a big part of what makes us human. To blow off your social responsibility and make conscious decisions to do wrong and claim that those decisions are a disease is cowardice. I am a flawed person, but when I consciously make a decision to do wrong, I will take responsibility for it. People who claim to be alcoholics unable to control themselves are the same people who don’t take responsibility when they hurt people.
Since people who refuse to take responsibility for their drinking blame it on a disease, what do these “alcoholics” claim is the cure? Something else that can’t be measured and is off limits to criticism in society- RELIGION. “Alcoholics” have banded together to form a religious cult so they don’t have to take responsibility for their actions. This cult is called Alcoholics Anonymous. Although, perhaps cult is the wrong word for a group over two million people strong… I think it has reached the hallowed status of socially accepted Religion.
Alcoholics Anonymous: Cult of Cowardice
Ok, ok, I am exaggerating when I call Alcoholics Anonymous a cult. Alcoholics Anonymous is a national organization of informal groups that try to get alcoholics to abstain from alcohol consumption. Alcoholics Anonymous bases it’s philosophy on 12 steps rooted in religion. Alcoholics Anonymous twelve steps are listed below:
- We admitted we were powerless over alcohol–that our lives had become unmanageable. Surrendering responsibility for ones own actions is a fundamental act of cowardice.
- Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity. Claiming that religion can save us from something they don’t want to take responsibility for.
- Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
- Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves. Except for the most basic moral check: Recognizing ones owns action and taking ownership of them.
- Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
- Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
- Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings. By asking God to get rid of your problems, you are saying that it is not your fault… and if you fail again, you couldn’t help it. God just didn’t help out enough.
- Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all. Finally some responsibility taken.
- Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
- Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
- Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
- Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs. SPREAD THE FAITH!!! Just like every other religion, this one holds a clause to propagate it’s own numbers.
As you can see above, Alcoholics Anonymous groups purposely shunt responsibility for their drinking away from themselves and on to a supernatural being. Once their accountability for what they have done is gone, “alcoholics” can feel better about themselves and what they have done. After all, getting drunk or high and hurting people isn’t my responsibility… My DISEASE made me do it! Right? The obvious flaws in such thinking lead to further harm to the person and society since they still have not taken personal responsibility for their consumption of alcohol.
Below is a video discussing the Alcoholics Anonymous groups and their fundamental problems.
To be fair, here is a video advertisement for Alcoholics Anonymous groups below:
What are some other problems with the success of Alcoholics Anonymous groups?
An internal report done by Alcoholics Anonymous itself in 1989 discovered that of “alcoholics” who attended Alcoholics Anonymous groups for the first time, only 19% stayed for one month and a shockingly low 5% stayed after 12 months. That means that 95% of people who have problems with their alcohol consumption, did not bother sticking with Alcoholics Anonymous groups.
Alcoholics Anonymous groups also have a very significant issue with abuse among their ranks. Alcoholics Anonymous works by pairing a newly joined “alcoholic” with a sober veteran mentor. However, Alcoholics Anonymous uses no criminal screening, restrictions or vetting in determining who get paired with who. As a result, “Thirteenth-stepping” has become a major problem; it is the practice of targeting new Alcoholics Anonymous members for sex and dating. Based on surveys that have shown wide abuse of these relationships, chemical dependency treatment providers now recommend that vulnerable people with histories of sex abuse join single-gender only support groups.
Watch this video interview of Dr. Stanton Peele on the disease theory of alcoholism. He points out fundamental problems with the basic ideas forced down drunks throats by Alcoholics Anonymous groups.
Court Rulings on Alcoholics Anonymous Groups
in 1996, the United States Supreme Court ruled that inmates parolees and probationers cannot be forced to attend religious based programs such as Alcoholics Anonymous groups or others. Forcing prisoners to attend such programs is forcing those same prisoners into a religious cult. Thank God for the separation of Church and State.
Another very important court ruling has found that internal communications between members of Alcoholics Anonymous groups is NOT covered under client, patient or clergy privileges and AA members can be forced to testify against one another in court. Although Alcoholics Anonymous members promise not to share a confidence, the courts do not honor that promise.
Alcohol Calculator: How to tell your Blood Alcohol Content Level:
My criticism of Alcoholics Anonymous groups and their philosophy of not taking responsibility or using self control does not mean that I do not advocate safe and responsible use of alcohol.
When drinking, you should always follow these rules:
- NEVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, DRINK AND DRIVE.
- Do not drink more than you know you can handle.
- Always take full responsibility for your actions, drunk or sober.
- Do not mix alcoholic beverages and any other drugs, even caffeine. Doing so can be hazardous for your health.
- A person who is drunk CANNOT give consent to have sex. You can go to jail if you have sex with someone who is incapacitated because of alcohol intoxication.
Please use the two alcohol calculator charts below as a rule of thumb only. Alcohol affects different people in different ways and having any alcohol in your system when operating a car has the potential to be dangerous.
MALES ALCOHOL CHART
APPROXIMATE BLOOD ALCOHOL PERCENTAGE | |||||||||
Drinks * |
BODY WEIGHT IN POUNDS | EFFECT ON PERSON | |||||||
100 | 120 | 140 | 160 | 180 | 200 | 220 | 240 | ||
0 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | ONLY SAFE DRIVING LIMIT |
1 | .04 | .03 | .03 | .02 | .02 | .02 | .02 | .02 | IMPAIRMENT BEGINS. |
2 | .08 | .06 | .05 | .05 | .04 | .04 | .03 | .03 | |
3 | .11 | .09 | .08 | .07 | .06 | .06 | .05 | .05 | DRIVING SKILLS SIGNIFICANTLY AFFECTED. |
4 | .15 | .12 | .11 | .09 | .08 | .08 | .07 | .06 | |
5 | .19 | .16 | .13 | .12 | .11 | .09 | .09 | .08 | LEGALLY INTOXICATED. CRIMINAL PENALTIES IN ALL STATES ** |
6 | .23 | .19 | .16 | .14 | .13 | .11 | .10 | .09 | |
7 | .26 | .22 | .19 | .16 | .15 | .13 | .12 | .11 | |
8 | .30 | .25 | .21 | .19 | .17 | .15 | .14 | .13 | |
9 | .34 | .28 | .24 | .21 | .19 | .17 | .15 | .14 | |
10 | .38 | .31 | .27 | .23 | .21 | .19 | .17 | .16 |
Subtract .01% for each 40 minutes of drinking.
* One drink is equal to 1¼ oz. of 80-proof liquor, 12 oz. of beer, or 4 oz. of table wine.**ALL states have a .08 BAC per se law
The final one took effect in August of 2005.
FEMALES ALCOHOL CHART
APPROXIMATE BLOOD ALCOHOL PERCENTAGE | ||||||||||
Drinks * |
BODY WEIGHT IN POUNDS | EFFECT ON PERSON | ||||||||
90 | 100 | 120 | 140 | 160 | 180 | 200 | 220 | 240 | ||
0 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | .00 | ONLY SAFE DRIVING LIMIT |
1 | .05 | .05 | .04 | .03 | .03 | .03 | .02 | .02 | .02 | IMPAIRMENT BEGINS. |
2 | .10 | .09 | .08 | .07 | .06 | .05 | .05 | .04 | .04 | DRIVING SKILLS SIGNIFICANTLY AFFECTED. |
3 | .15 | .14 | .11 | .11 | .09 | .08 | .07 | .06 | .06 | |
4 | .20 | .18 | .15 | .13 | .11 | .10 | .09 | .08 | .08 | LEGALLY INTOXICATED.CRIMINAL PENALTIES IN ALL STATES ** |
5 | .25 | .23 | .19 | .16 | .14 | .13 | .11 | .10 | .09 | |
6 | .30 | .27 | .23 | .19 | .17 | .15 | .14 | .12 | .11 | |
7 | .35 | .32 | .27 | .23 | .20 | .18 | .16 | .14 | .13 | |
8 | .40 | .36 | .30 | .26 | .23 | .20 | .18 | .17 | .15 | |
9 | .45 | .41 | .34 | .29 | .26 | .23 | .20 | .19 | .17 | |
10 | .51 | .45 | .38 | .32 | .28 | .25 | .23 | .21 | .19 |
Subtract .01% for each 40 minutes of drinking.
* One drink is equal to 1¼ oz. of 80-proof liquor, 12 oz. of beer, or 4 oz. of table wine.
REMEMBER: Alcohol consumption affects different people in VASTLY different ways. One person could be fully functional after many drinks while another could be incapacitated by just one. BE CAREFUL when consuming alcohol!!!!
People have been shown to have genetic dispositions to be more likely to drink, and to form substance reliant habits. In such a regard, any type of habitual consumption or addictive substances can be thought of as a disease. It is something the individual has little control over and may not recognize until too late.
In alcoholic homes, people can also be trained to see substances as a means for relaxation, peace, calming, and happiness. This type of positive feedback essentially raises individuals who are substance dependent. This could be considered and classified as a mental illness.
I don’t know that I would just throw out the entire book on groups like AA, although I do believe that they are hugely unsuccessful (as we have personally witnessed). Support groups can be very helpful in breaking harmful habits or addictions or providing the necessary infrastructure to do so.
Now, that being said, I drink, although I am the child of an alcoholic, because I do not believe it is a disease that can be passed from generation to generation. I occasionally drink to relax, occasionally drink for social gatherings, and on even rarer occasions, just for fun. I, however, will NEVER drink if I feel like it is the only pick me up out there. Better to be temporarily depressed and wake up feeling better a day or two later, than to start forming a habit where some substance is the answer to my problems.
That’s a terrible disease to form.
Alcoholics Anonymous: Cult of Cowardice – I love this even though I am a member of the cult – no anger felt – everyone has the right to share.
You people make me giggle..
Obviously the author is no an alcoholic and he hasn´t read the OMS Satatement -303 (1953)- about alcoholism. It must be gourgeous to be God.
What is “OMS Satatement -303 (1953)”?
I have personally struggled with alcohol and have come close to death on a few occasions. The freedom I found and have enjoyed for many years now from my personal struggle was to be fully responsible for myself and my actions, whether they occurred when I was drunk or sober. AA is saturated with erroneous principles which are exceedingly trancended by basic, universal truths. I personally found AA to be an obstruction from my ability to be responsible and therefore, free. I suppose people can view this as a disease if they so choose since somewhere along the line it has been claimed as such. For me personally, whether science or the medical industry reports it as a disease or not simply does not matter. In my eyes, there is nothing useful, positive, and healing for doing so, yet plenty of negative, disempowering and irresponsible consequences for calling it a disease. Therefore for me, in my eyes, it is not a disease.
Glad to see that it is being openly discussed. One thing I know for sure is that if one finds a sense of peace, comfort through AA then by all means go for it. However, until recently it has been aggressively and arrogantly claimed by people within the industry to be “the only way” and that is just pure non-sense. People who are so defensive about AA and somehow threatened by the idea that many people find solutions to their alcohol/drug struggles outside of AA, need to look more closely at the solitidy of their own “recovery”.
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I’ve done both, sobriety without AA(for 8 plus years) and sobriety with AA (1 year), I’m still sober and I prefer AA’s way. If its a cult then so shall be it, I’m happier then I’ve ever been in my life. You are allowed your opinion but I’d be careful with it because you never know who you could be harming with it, some poor person might be considering AA and see’s this and well you get my point. God Bless You.
I am breaking tradition 10 by discussing this in a forum.
When the only opinion I represent is that of my own… I acknowledge the free will given by God over that of The censorship “suggested” by A.A.
As a member, I am completely comfortable with the statements here.
I have witnessed cult-like behaviors in some groups. I do not attend those groups. In any city, you may find a large amount of different groups with different formats. The group I attend does not “add rules”. Many of the suggestions made by “Program” people are nowhere to be found in the bigbook.
I date whom I wish. I dress how I will and I speak with the full understanding of the privileges afforded me by something greater than mankind.
For newcomers who read this:
A.A. has worked for me. I did have to refrain from certain groups and individuals who added more to the program than was intended.
And finally, Bill Wilson did die a drunk. That has no bearing on the program, nor does that mean he doesn’t deserve respect for making a human effort to aspire to a better way of life.
A true A.A. groups accept all religions without opinion or bias. I have met many faiths in A.A. & was first sponsored by an atheist. Strangely enough he was quite spiritual. There is a difference between spirituality & religion.
http://silkworth.net/aa/12traditions.html
What you have to say about AA is a bunch of crap! Clearly you are not fully educated about all the good it has done for so many since it began. And if you have a better way of helping people that do have a hard time helping themselves then go for it.
Your opinions are stupid and worthless!!!!!!!!!!!
Your opinions on alcoholism make for interesting reading. I am a recovered alcoholic, I attend AA meetings and I am a Psychologist.
Not everyone in AA believes in God. I know a good number of atheists in AA who are happy in their recovery.
I do agree with you that Alcoholism is not a disease, it is a pathology. It is my view that this pathology can only be corrected when the alcoholic DOES take responsibility for his or her actions, most notably by stopping drinking.
Therein lies the fundamental flaw in your argument – you have misunderstood Step 1. Step 1 asserts that the alcholic is powerless OVER ALCOHOL. The rest of the steps assert that the only way that the alcholic can stay sober is precisely by taking responsibility for ALL AREAS of his or her life.
You are not alone in mis-interpreting Step 1, indeed there are a lot of people in AA who mis-interpret Step 1 – they have stopped drinking but in all other areas of their lives they are completely out of control.
So, I invite you to return to Step 1, re-read it, seek a better understanding of it and then examine the rest of the steps, notably steps 4 through to 10 and then 12 and see that these urge the alcoholic to take responsibility.
Best Regards,
Mike.
I’m in my early twenties. I’m from Midwest and currently work in the north as a Physical Therapy tech for the military. My mom is a 13-year recovering alcoholic. I have been a part of AA on my own for the past year. Here are some of my thoughts:
The author of this article wrote: “The founder of Alcoholics Anonymous, Bill Wilson, even stated that alcoholism is more comparable to a MALADY than a disease.”
From thefreedictionary.com, first four synonyms for malady: “illness, sickness, unwellness
condition – an illness, disease, or other medical problem”
HM. Malady and disease sound very similar. Good try though!
This guy sounded like he went to a lot of work to prove AA is bad/erroneous/wrong or whatever else. Kinda reminds me of the guy who swears he’s over his ex but still spends so much energy hating her. Is he really over her? If he didn’t care anymore about her, he why spend all the energy on her? If the author here really believes AA is crap, why spend so much time and research on this? Personally I believe the author may have some underlying problems. But that’s not my business.
I’d like to know also, what did he do for society by putting this out there? I wonder if this article helped anyone. I think AA is up to 2 million in recovery. Since 1935. That means millions more FAMILIES, FRIENDS, little kids, husbands, wives, sons and daughters are less affected by alcoholism and have HAPPIER lives. Not perfect, but better…
I like this part too:
…”people who refuse to take responsibility for their drinking”
Steps 8-10 state:
step 8…”became willing to make AMENDS to them all.”
And then his smartass add: “Finally some responsibility taken.”
You contradicted yourself there hot shot by saying we refuse to take responsibility.
step 9….”Made direct amends”…
We own up to what we’ve done.
step 10…”Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.” Wow now that just sounds so irresponsible doesn’t it?
You know what this whole article is so full of mistakes…it’s just not worth it to keep typing about all of it. And I’d like to apologize for even going on and on like this. It hit a nerve and I wanted to write something. But like someone said before, I truly hope no one was considering trying AA and read this.
Sorry, after rereading my own comment, looks like I need some work!
Thanks for your comment Mike.
I think somebody has a resentment…. Live and let live, brother. If you don’t like the fact that some people find their recovery in the rooms of AA, then don’t go to the rooms of AA. I am no shrink, but if you took the time to post such a large hate-post regarding AA & recovering alcoholics I would venture to say I would be glad to take you to a meeting, sounds like you could use one 🙂
“The rest of the steps assert that the only way that the alcholic can stay sober is precisely by taking responsibility for ALL AREAS of his or her life.”
The rest of the steps flat-out state that the only way the alcoholic can do this is by forging a personal relationship with God and carrying this message to others.
This is the reason I left A.A. I realized pretty quickly that it had nothing to do with not drinking. It’s a religion, not a “how to guide” on quitting drinking. I’m not knocking it, just identifying it for what it is.
The only way the alcoholic can stay sober is to not drink alcohol. If forging a personal relationship with God helps you do so, more power to you. It is not, however, the only way to stop (and stay stopped). I’ve known plenty of God-fearing drunks and plenty of teetotaling atheists.
Again, the only “problem” I have with A.A. is the tendency of its proponents to treat it as something other than what it actually is.
I don’t agree with everything written here, although I agree it is a choice. When we are in the throes of addiction, it makes the choice more difficult. I do agree, however, that AA is a cult religion. I’ve witnessed a great deal of harm that it has caused. I know from experience that you cannot have a rational discussion with those who have drank the AA kool-aid, any more than you can reason with a Scientologist – and in fine form, many AAs who posted here hit you some quality, ad hominem personal attacks. That is their MO.
Nicely written and well thought out post.
Hey …………..interesting read – I am a 10 month happy sober AA member, after several attempts to stop AA seems to be a real source of hope for me.
My approach is you take what you need and develop a program that works for each particpant. I do not have a sponsor that I interact with, have not done any steos, but try to live them as I understand them, I am now sober happy and not fearful of my next pending screw up – all in all – it was my team in AA that helped me get what I needed – serenity, courage and a little widsom.
Be well JOHN
when I started reading the article, I did initially well up with anger, but it has since subsided.
In the interest of providing some balance, for anyone who reads the article, which is indeed well written, I would like to clarify some issues/points.
Most notably that AA has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with religion. It deals purely with spirituality. Spirituality is at the heart of every religion, but religion is not at the heart of spirituality. The fact that the word God is mentioned does not mean that it pertains to any particular denomination or sect. In fact all AA literature goes to great lengths to explain that this God is a “higher power” of the members understanding – members are not forced to believe in anything other than a power greater than themselves. It would be a bit vain and even naiive to assume that we humans are the greatest power in the universe. For many people this higher power is AA (or the force/synergy at work in AA that means its total is greater than the sum of its individual parts).
There is a disctinct lack of evidence, even anecdotal, to back up any of the points that you make, which would rule the article little more than personal opinion, from someone apparently unqalified to have an opinion.
Also, your interpretation of the Steps is again purely personal opinion, and has very little, if any, basis in reality. To say that:
#1 We admitted we were powerless over alcohol–that our lives had become unmanageable. Surrendering responsibility for ones own actions is a fundamental act of cowardice.
this is your interpretation of the step, and indeed mis-interpretation of the step.
The step itself never says that the alcoholics actions are as a result of his drinking. The step says that the alcoholic is powerless over alcohol. Now whether or not you agree with the classification of Alcoholism as a disease or not, it would be wrong to argue that either an alcoholic, or someone who is not alcoholic has power over alcohol. Neither one can control the effect that alcohol has on the body. To assume that alcohol invokes the exact same chemical reaction within everyone would again be, not only presumptuous, but Naiive. Similar to making the assumption that dairy products would invoke the same chemical reaction in someone who is lactose intolerant.
The fact that an alcoholics life has become unmanageable, is in no way blamed on alcohol. It is a mere statement of fact. It is this fact, indeed that leads the alcoholic to do something about their drinking.
Just to ask a few questions.
– Are you familiar with the difference between spirituality and religion?
– Your understanding of God [that I presume you don’t believe in], does that come solely from the religions that you disagree with?
– Have you tried reading any spiritual literature to try and get your own understanding of God/Being/Higher Power, rather than just disagree with what you think other peoples idea of God is?
– Do you think that the universe came out of nothing, that it is going back to nothing, and that existence in itself is poinless?
– Do you believe that the human mind is truly strong enough to understand the workings of the universe (the entire thing not just the parts we are aware of), bearing in mind that we don’t even know everything about the planet we are on?
– Do you believe that the human mind is capable of understanding what God is?
I had been drinking for twenty years and was told by all concerned that I was an alcoholic and would have to attend AA and various other programs to sort myself out, nothing ever worked until I went to see a psychologist who explained to me my problem was not with alcohol but was with multiple mental health problems, I simply used alcohol to deal with it all.
I used alcohol to deal with…
· Stress
· Anxiety
· Depression
· Hyperactivity
And many other mental health problems, it was simply the quick fix.
I am now learning the tools to deal with all my problems without alcohol and I am glad I found someone who did not label be as an alcoholic or a drunk.